“Wishing” We Didn’t Have to Say “Goodnight”–
In 1964, my lovely bride and I were married! On our romantic dates, leading up to September 26, 1964, I would drop her off at her house, walk her to the front door where we would often stand on the porch (depending on the time on the clock), singing the songs that were currently popular and playing on the radio.
“Hoping” to Meet Curfew!
Although Dianne was 20 years old at the time, a 2-AM Curfew was to be strictly enforced or…TROUBLE! Dianne’s mother would often raise her voice from behind the closed front door, “Dianne, be quiet. Your dad is asleep!” That was my future mother-in-law’s way of telling us…it’s late and there will be no ‘hanky-panky’ out there. What will all the neighbors think while peeking out between their curtains? One neighbor came out one night to water her garden–at 1:30 AM!
It was a small neighborhood and everyone knew everyone’s business. I wished we could have stayed outside singing until the sun would rise–but hoping– ‘restriction in dating’ wouldn’t be necessary– as long as…we were obedient to her mom and dad’s rules.
One of my favorite singers back in the olden’ days was Dusty Springfield. There was one particular song she recorded in 1964, “Wishin’ and Hopin’ “. For you older readers, do you remember some of the words?
Just wishing and hoping and thinking and praying
planning and dreaming…
The song by the way, wasn’t a ‘religious’ number emphasizing the practice of how to pray in life. It was a secular song about finding LOVE in your life from someone else. And if you are wondering where I’m taking all this, let me direct you to grab your Bible and turn with me to the Book of 1 John 2:28-3:1-3 AMP:
What Does HOPE Have to Do With It?
1 John, Chapter 2:
 And now, little children, abide (live, remain permanently) in Him, so that when He is made visible, we may have and enjoy perfect confidence (boldness, assurance) and not be ashamed and shrink from Him at His coming.  If you know (perceive and are sure) that He [Christ] is absolutely righteous (conforming to the Father’s will in purpose, thought and action), you may also know (be sure) that every one who does righteously [and is therefore in like manner conformed to the divine will] is born (begotten) of Him [God].
1 John, Chapter 3:
 SEE WHAT [an incredible] quality of love the Father has given (shown, bestowed on) us, that we should [be permitted to] be named and called and counted the children of God! And so we are! The reason that the world does not know (recognize, acknowledge) Him.  Beloved, we are [even here and] now God’s children, it is not yet disclosed (made clear) what we shall be [hereafter], but we know that when He comes and is manifested we shall [as God’s children] resemble and be like Him, for we shall see Him just as He [really] is.  And every one who has this hope [resting] on Him cleanses (purifies) himself just as He is pure–chaste, undefiled, guiltless.”
“HOPE” and “WISHES”–the Differences:
I read an article by Tonya Sheridan in preparation for our study that mentioned the differences between “hoping and wishing”:
A WISH is something that you desire to come true but no basis in reality. It’s passive, can lead to frustration, even depression. HOPING is having a DESIRE with REAL EXPECTATION. To HOPE is believing the things you hope for can happen because you’ve invested time, energy, and passion toward making them happen.
An example of WISHING might sound something like this: Lord, I’ve been unemployed now for too long! I WISH you would give me a new job.
The the Lord would answer by responding to your WISH: I wish you had a job too!
HOPING for a job would be praying that God would open the doors of opportunity today, and in HOPING…you actually start looking in confidence. HOPE is a DESIRE coupled with DISCIPLINE. God will do His part–you need to do your part. You have to walk through the open door of opportunity.
Vine’s Complete Expository Dictionary says, HOPE in the New Testament is a ‘favorable and confident expectation’–I like to add a few words to the definition: With an outstretched neck!
Scripture Examples of “HOPE”:
Ephesians 4:4 – “[THERE IS] one body and one Spirit–just as there is also ONE HOPE [that belongs] to the calling you received–“
The “HOPE OF ETERNAL LIFE”: Titus 1:2, and 3:7
Titus 1:2: “[Resting] in the hope of eternal life, [life] which the ever truthful God Who cannot deceive promised before the world or the ages of time began.”
Titus 3:7: “…and that we might become heirs of eternal life according to [our] hope.”
(i.e., “the full manifestation and realization of that life which is already in the believer’s possession.)
The Subject of HOPE–
One of the great themes in the Bible is based on HOPE. The word occurs over 50 times in the New Testament.
To a BELIEVER: HOPE is our strength to live healthy, godly, productive lives. We depend greatly on this element of HOPE that was placed in hearts at accepting Jesus Christ as savior.
Without HOPE, for the unbeliever and the Believer, there is really no reason to expand effort; a state of hopelessness is closely related to a state of death. HOPE is essential to the human soul, as water or food is to our physical bodies. And a life without hope is a ‘living hell’. In fact, it’s one thing that will make hell unbearable!–the absolute absence of HOPE!
GUESS WHO’S HAVING A YARD SALE?
The Devil was having a yard sale and all of his tools were marked the name and price. They were tools like hatred, lust, jealousy, deceit, lying, and pride. All were carrying a HIGH PRICE TAG!
But set to one side, there was a tool more worn than any other tool. It was the most costly of the tool inventory. The tool was labeled, DISCOURAGEMENT.
When asked why this tool was priced so high, the Devil answered, “It’s more useful to me than any other tool. When I can’t bring my victims down with any of these other tools, I use DISCOURAGEMENT–sweep them away! That’s because most of them don’t even realize it belongs to me.” Have you ever had that tool used on you? Have you ever lost your JOY because you lost your HOPE?
The apostle Paul wrote to the ROMAN Christians, “May the God of your hope so fill you with all joy and peace in believing [through the experience of your faith] that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound and be overflowing (bubbling over) with hope” (Romans 15:13 AMP).
Have you ever been around a person overflowing in hope? When I’ve been around a person like that, I want to get all the overflow of hope I can!
A Person Who Is Overflowing With HOPE–
Paul says that person–has the POWER of the Holy Spirit who is also full of joy and peace. Those are the things that accompany HOPE. It is amazing what a person full of HOPE can accomplish.
But the Devil also knows that godly hope is a powerful thing. He will do everything he can to rob you of your confident expectation in God.
THE ISSUE OF FAITH AND HOPE–CAN’T HAVE ONE WITHOUT THE OTHER!
If I were to ask you a question right now: “What are you looking forward to in the New Year?” How would you answer? Then, if I were to strengthen that question, asking, “What are you living for?” I would be touching on the issue of HOPE.
“For in [this] HOPE we were saved. But HOPE [the object of] which is seen is not HOPE. For how can one HOPE for what he already sees? But if we HOPE for what is still unseen by us, we wait for it with patience and composure” (Romans 8:24-25).
Having HOPE and having FAITH are two of God’s gifts–
1. HOPE provides purpose and well-being in our belief.
2. FAITH gives us the strength to keep hoping which in turn, makes us optimistic and loving.
One of my favorite verses in the Bible is the one in Hebrews 11–the FAITH Chapter:
“NOW FAITH is the assurance (the confirmation, the title-deed) of the things [we] hope for, being the proof of things [we] do not see and the conviction of their reality [faith perceiving as real fact what is not revealed to the senses]” (Hebrews 11:1 AMP).
FAITH is enduring–
Isaiah 7 verse 9 says, “If your faith is not enduring, you will not endure.” God’s promise to us if we continue to endure, continue to carry on–God will provide for ALL of our needs.
God asks simply for HOPE and FAITH–
Bringing your umbrella when you are faithful–it will rain.
Bring your Bible when you are faithful–you want to share the Word.
Bring your heart when you faithfully want to love someone.
Be HOPEFUL and Be FAITHFUL and God will show you what goodness can come by simply having HOPE and FAITH!
What I Uncovered This Detective Investigation of 1 John 3:1-3:
1 John 3:1: WHAT WE ARE.
1 John 3:2: WHAT WE SHALL BE.
1 John 3:3: WHAT WE SHOULD BE.
First John 3:1: TELL US what we are and First John 3:2: TELLS US what we shall be. The reference here, of course is to the time of Jesus’ coming back for His Bride, the Church. And although today’s conservative churches confess they believe it, ESCHATOLOGY has become a dormant message from pulpit these last days. Although, this message of Christ’s return was mentioned in 1 John 2:28 as an incentive of holy living, now it’s repeated once more in the Third Chapter of First John, verse 2.
God’s Love For Us–
God’s LOVE doesn’t stop at the new birth, it continues throughout our lives and takes us right up to the return of Jesus Christ. When the Lord appears, all true believers will see Him and will become like Him (Phil. 3:20, 21).
This means, of course, we will have new, glorified bodies, suited for heaven [NOT Asbestos, fire-proofed clothing]. But the apostle doesn’t stop here!
He has told us what we are and what we shall be. Now in 1 John 3:3, he tells us what we should be.
In the HOPE of Christ’s return, we are to keep our lives CLEAN (purified)–
God works through our circumstances:
“Such HOPE never disappoints or deludes or shames us, for God’s LOVE has been poured out in our hearts through the Holy spirit Who has been given to us” (Romans 5:5 AMP).
That’s why John says…all those who have this kind of hope–this certainty–and understands this process, PURIFIES THEMSELVES, even as Christ is PURE! (1 John 3:3).
But you say, “Purify myself? That is the one thing I can’t do.” And that IS true. God knows that. So what does God mean when He says, purify yourself?
You purify yourself when you use the means He’s provided. You mothers know how this works.
Your little boy has been playing outside and comes to the supper table–covered in dirt. You send him to the bathroom to purify himself. And like ALL boys, he turns on the water, runs his hands through it–turns the water off, wipes his hands on the towel, then comes back to the family table. I know this from personal experience (I was a young boy and I had a son).
And as my mom said to me as she looked me over, “But you’re not clean.”
Mel: “Well, I washed myself.”
Mel’s Mom: “But look at the dirt on your hands and arms, on your face, behind your ears. You’re not all clean.”
Then every wise mother (my mom was very wise) asks, “Did you use soap?” Of course he hasn’t, so she sends him back TO USE SOAP.
What is SOAP?
— It is a purifying agent, a cleansing agent.
It will do the job if it is employed.
So when he comes back the second time, he has washed with SOAP; the SOAP has cleansed him, purified him. Now he says,
“Look Mom, I’ve cleaned myself up!” It is true that he did it, but he did it by using his mother’s provision.
THE “PROVISION” FOR OUR CLEANSING:
1. The WORD of God.
2. The Spirit of God.
1 John 1:7: “But if we [really] are living and walking in the Light, as He [Himself] is in the Light, we have [true, unbroken] fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses (removes) us from all sin and guilt [keeps us cleansed from sin in all its forms and manifestations].”
1 John 1:9: “If we [freely] admit that we have sinned and confess our sins, He is faithful and just (true to His own nature and promises) and will forgive our sins [dismiss our lawlessness] and [continuously] cleanse us from all unrighteousness…”.
This is significant for Believers, and we must begin to take seriously the break in fellowship with Christ Jesus; because of an impatient spirit, an ugly word, a lustful idea, or a thought we have dwelt on, for oh to long.
The stain of it–
It doesn’t disappear with passage of time. It interferes with our fellowship with the Son of God–we must do something about it. We can’t simply forget it.
We must PURIFY OURSELVES by using His provision so we might become clean! That is our desire, our HOPE within us.
I HOPE now, you’ve made a distinction for the upcoming New Year–Wishin’ for things to come won’t bring the desired result. Only your heartfelt expectation with an “outstretched neck”, will you see the desired results.